10 Things Solo Travelers Don't Think About Until It's Too Late
- Allison Stalnaker
- Jun 11
- 4 min read
Solo travel is liberating, empowering, and deeply personal, but if we’re being honest, it’s also a logistical puzzle that can unravel fast without the right planning. Whether it’s your first time traveling alone or your tenth, there are a few things I’ve seen even seasoned solo travelers overlook -- things that don’t usually pop up in a casual Google search or on the pages of a travel blog written for the masses.
These are the kinds of missteps you don’t notice until you’re in a tuk tuk in the rain with no cell service and a driver who swears your hotel doesn’t exist.
Let’s talk about the details no one warns you about until it’s too late.

1. Booking the “Best” Hotel… That’s Nowhere Near the Good Stuff
One of the biggest mistakes solo travelers make is relying too heavily on glowing reviews without checking location context. That dreamy boutique stay? It might be on the outskirts of the city with no walkable restaurants or easy transit. When you're alone, convenience isn’t a luxury. It’s safety and comfort. I always map client accommodations against activities, reliable transit, and neighborhood vibe.
2. Forgetting to Build in “Anchor” Activities
Solo travel can feel aimless if your days aren’t anchored by at least one set experience. A guided walking tour, cooking class, or museum ticket gives structure and purpose. Plus, it's a great way to casually meet people without the pressure of socializing 24/7.

3. Not Understanding Local Scams That Specifically Target Solo Travelers
Scammers know who to target, and solo travelers are often top of the list. From “helpful” strangers who guide you into overpriced shops to unofficial taxi drivers quoting absurd fares, these moments happen fast. It's important to stay up to date on common scams specific to the regions you’re visiting, so you can feel confident without feeling cynical.
4. Ignoring SIM Card and Connectivity Limitations
Many travelers assume their phone plan will magically work. Spoiler: it won’t, or it will at a premium. Not all airports sell SIM cards late at night, and eSIMs don’t work on every device. And don’t forget, without local data, you can’t translate menus, use rideshare apps or navigate offline unless you’ve planned for it. I always include digital prep tips in my pre-departure documents to avoid that “why isn’t this working” moment in an unfamiliar city.

5. Not Having a Flexible Plan for Rainy Days or Burnout Moments
You’ll likely hit a day where the weather, your mood, or both are a mess. That’s where having a flexible list of lighter, lower-effort activities can save you. Think cafes with people-watching potential, indoor food markets, or spas that don’t require advance booking. I prep my solo clients with options that let them pivot without stress.
6. Underestimating the Emotional Weight of Solo Dining
Yes, you’re brave enough to travel alone, but that doesn’t mean eating alone in a crowded restaurant on a Saturday night won’t feel awkward. I recommend booking experiences like cooking classes, food tours, or casual counter-service spots where solo dining feels natural. Some of my clients even prefer boutique hotels with great on-site dining so they can enjoy dinner solo in a relaxed setting.

7. Booking Late-Night Arrivals Without a Transfer Plan
Arriving at 11:30 PM in a new country with no transport plan is a no-go. Especially solo. Even if rideshare apps work, surge pricing and wait times can be unpredictable. I always pre-arrange private transfers for my clients when they’re landing late because no one wants to navigate airport chaos when they’re jetlagged and alone.
8. Relying on Reviews Without Understanding Cultural Context
That “rude” host in Rome? Might have just been direct. That “boring” museum in Siem Reap? Possibly incredible if you understand its historical significance. Reviews often reflect Western expectations, not cultural realities. When I build custom trips, I include local context and cultural insight so my clients know what to expect and how to show up respectfully.

9. Packing Based on Pinterest, Not Practicality
Linen dresses and cute sandals look great online, but Paris in March? You’ll want fast-drying, warm layers, a real rain jacket, and shoes that won’t betray you on cobblestone sidewalks. I create custom packing lists based on climate, terrain, and activities because showing up unprepared can derail a day fast.
10. Not Having a Backup Plan for Tech Fails or Lost Items
What if you drop your phone in a puddle in Buenos Aires? Or lose your credit card at a night market in Marrakech? These moments are stressful no matter what, but especially so when there’s no one to lean on. I always prep my clients with practical backup plans, like storing cash, debit, and credit cards in separate places, writing down their hotel address and emergency contacts on paper (in case phones die or get lost), and making sure their cards are loaded into a digital wallet for quick access. That way, if things go sideways, they're prepared.

Solo travel should feel empowering, not exhausting.
The truth is, solo trips are incredibly rewarding but they come with layers that aren’t obvious until you’ve done it a few times.
If you're dreaming of a solo trip that feels seamless, inspiring, and safe but don’t have the time or energy to dig through every detail, I’d love to help. After all, your dream trip (and your personal safety) deserves more than a patchwork of Google searches.